How can I be positive when he is stuck on the D meter? I know I am doing everything wrong. And with him being gone, I am constantly worried about if he is talking to OW, what he saying, and what he is thinking.

He said that when he met me, I was a strong woman who had a fun and vibrant attitude. I have succumbed to worrying if/when is will come home and re-discover a new relationship with me. I really want my marriage - just don't know how I get there from here.


Last edited by ShellDoll; 07/16/10 04:21 PM.
Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison