I get what you're saying. It's normal to go through all kinds of emotions during this process and feeling numb is definitely one of those! Do you think you could be depressed or is this just towards your wife? There's a difference between being depressed towards everything and having no feelings for WAS. If you are feeling great about everything else and just couldn't care less about W, then that's a good thing! If you're numb towards everything, that's bad.
