I'm not a vet by any means but I think you have been doing very well. The session was much better than the money confrontation but you held it together and stayed calm. I wish I would have picked up these things as fast as you did and was able to let go sooner and not be afraid of her reaction to things.
The only thing that really caught my attention was the fact that she talked about being afraid of you. My XW said this on several occasions and it made no sense to me just like you. I believe that this may be WAW script so that they can feel better about what they are doing. They need as many excuses as possible to justify in their PEA brains why they are doing what they are doing and they will come up with anything and believe it.
Puppy would know better if this is script or not. You can certainly validate her feelings. "I'm sorry you feel that way." but I think you can also reiterate that you have no intention of hurting her.
Keep up the good work. I think you're doing great!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
