Dear ___________: I have a feeling that my husband is not being honest with you. Has he shared that his entire family knows that you’ve been involved since at least February and that everyone also knows you are now living together? Has he shared how disgusted everyone is with this situation? I just want to make sure you know that the wool is over no one’s eyes and no one is going to accept your relationship as legitimate at a later point. In fact, I’ve been assured that you won’t be welcomed into the homes of any of his family members.
Doesn’t it make you wonder why _____ will not be open about what he’s doing with you? Why hasn’t he filed for divorce with me? Don’t you wonder what the sleeping arrangements have been on the nights he’s stayed at our house recently?
You are obviously aware that he’s been dishonest with me – what makes you think he's honest with you?
