Agreed. It is important to me that she knows that, temporarily, the door is still ajar if she comes out of the ether.
The intolerance of the A and gaining respect is paramount. Especially now since I'm quite sure OM is unravelling and looking less attractive. STBXW says when his real personality comes out, and it happens quickly as he gets comfortable, it won't be pretty.
So, I'm leaning Gucci rather than Allen- which I have in reserve for "stepping it up" if nothing changes.
