Yes Allen - letter is to put pressure on situation. Think H might not be honest with her about how much I know and how much his fam knows - she might be holding out hope that just laying low fow awhile is all they need to do. Then they can surface and have a legitimate relationship. I want to blow that plan out of the water and have her realize that the only future for their relationship is a secretive future . . .
Trying to avoid being arrested in process so it needs to not be over the line.