Don't blame me for exposure. YOU had the A And the letting go/your decision/etc
No, you need ONE script, and before you can script it, you need to decide on ONE approach.
I know what someone else said above about "Dobson's approach is not all that different from so-and-so's," etc., but this really is two very distinct (with SOME overlap, yes) different strategies. Just spend some time reading Robx's and Gucci's posts, and then read Allen A's -- these are the two most accurate proponents of the two schools.
One is "I don't want a divorce, I love you but I won't tolerate this disrespect" and hard-core affair-busting. The other is laissez-faire (but with a PURPOSE -- it's not Bo-Peep) ... at its very core it's "I agree, we should probably divorce, this isn't working out for me either."
You need to decide which fork in the road you're going to take, and then script THAT.
