I have a week to calm down and prepare. I know she will deny a lot and I will hand over everything I have found. I will go over it with her. I will let her know her behavior IS unacceptable.
As for packing the bags, I would like to tell her regardless. "W ..yadda yadda yadda, the secrets.(not like this but I don't want to drag on) If you want to leave there is the door. I am not forcing you out, but I am not leaving the house. I am coming back inside to be the man of the house and hold the family together. You can take the truck, horse trailer,horses, and kids. I have already brought all of this to the attention of my L and I am proceeding with the D, if that is possible. " Something to this effect. I'll clean it up as time goes on.
Since I may not be legally married, can I ask W to drop the suit regardless? or is that a sign of weakness?
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
