Sure there are times when its safe to go over the speed limit. There are times when its safe to go over your budget and stretch things out a bit. There are times when breaking your diet and having that chocolate cake is safe.
Is it WORTH risking your hard earned goals for?
If you measure the GAIN from flirting vs the potential HARM that can result its NOT WORTH it to FLIRT at ALL
Every possible reason I can imagine flirting can be secured WITHIN the marriage.
To feel attractive To feel important, etc
I won't argue that every flirtation will lead to sexual affairs, but I will argue the risks arne't worth it, and its almost impossible to know if its a risk or not until AFTER its crossed the line.
I think it was Shirley Glass who said "you never know if you are crossing the line until you are on the other side of it, and then its too late."
I think it was Glass. The point is still a good one, even if I haven't had my cheerios yet and can't remember the reference.
