Both very good points.

Thank you for the objectivity.

I have tons of stuff. ANd though some details are sketchy, I'm not required to show W anything.

So now the inevitable confrontation looms.

And I've forgotten the objectives of that.

Get her out? (and change the locks)
Tell her I'll get Sep Papers done up ASAP.
Until the A is over, we have nothing to talk about except D

And I need the two scripts-

Don't blame me for exposure. YOU had the A
And the letting go/your decision/etc

I don't know if I want to bomb her with the full custody thing. DOn't know if I could or even can. I'll find the wording for 'every second weekend" (Perhaps supervised visitaion.access)

I'm not going soft here. Just need some re-focus