BBJ, I am going to go inside. My uncle and aunt, who live next door, say the interior is nice. The owners have money and have kept it up. It's just small. I looked at an aerial of the house online. It basically can fit into my uncle's living room.
But I only use about 60 percent of the townhouse. I never even put anything in the second bedroom. I either slept on the couch or futon in the basement. And I didn't really use the basement for anything except my weight set and washer and dryer.
I'm taking the application in at lunch and going to ask when I can see the inside -- just to make sure.
Played golf this morning and was hitting the ball really well for a while. But I started missing putts and then started missing with the driver and the round went to H*ll.
About the 14th hole, a coworker told me about his brother. They have three kids. The wife is openly cheating on him, posting pics on FB, running up the family credit cards. So he asked my advice and I gave him the advice EVERYONE on this board gave me last year that I IGNORED until October -- go see a lawyer.
Had I listened to everyone here and my friends I would have gone last May before or the day I moved out and he would have told me to insist on joint physical custody or I'd move back in. By just letting STBXW have physical custody I put myself in a hole in terms of precedent I can't climb out of.
But that's in the past and can't be undone. It is going to be a very, very good weekend. I can feel it.
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