I think that you are right-quit helping her, I will not send her anymore money, that was dumb anyhow, if she comes this weekend that I think that she is back for good. Then true healing starts. Or the real job of forgiving has to start. I just don't think that she loves me anymore. I don't think that she is coming. I am her safty net. I used to be the love of her life. Someone I know that she didn't think that she could live without. Now, I really believe that I am no importance to her at all. Just someone to help her if she really gets in trouble.
