I am sorry but I have to LOL...Of course she is the victim - They all are....You came in the way of her happiness...Didn't you know that?
Glad to provide the lulz... I laugh about it too. If nothing else, I didn't lose my sense of humor.
I thought it was I didn't do my job of making her happy. I missed the fine print in the marriage contract that said I was responsible for her personal happiness 24/7.
She said in MC the first week of the bomb, that she didn't think I even knew how to be happy. Looking back I think.... stop projecting.
--Fergie /Having a ranting kind of day //Breathing
Mind - Thanks. I think a lot of it was her and I feeding into each others unhappiness. We were great at nurturing the negative feelings and nothing else.