Originally Posted By: Irish
I know the feelings that I am having are to be expected. I'm tired and hurt.


Yes.

They are.

BUT

How you react to them is the key.

And you just went through a trial of that.

It may not feel like it but you did well.

You will be tested on a daily basis because you have to interact with H becuase of your children.

I don't have children. So I would go weeks without any trial with my W and then BAM!

It is all part of the process of becoming the new YOU.

There will be a day when you will do this without thinking, without having to hold yourself in control, because it will be you.

It takes time.

You are doing good. Keep going.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am