Hi Par4me, did she leave you or the other way round? He left me, and really doesnt want to reconcile at all. He believes we'll be happier people apart. I have told him I want to work on the marriage, he's living his own independent life now
You are so blessed that she even asked to work on it, I know its because you decided you'd had enough too and let her know.
This morning, his pretty secretary (young and hot) is going in for an operation, I'm 99% sure he's taken her to the hospital (he says he feels sorry for her having not many friends here cause she just moved her), but it still send red flags waving madly....
Last night he came round, brought me a present- his old mac laptop, and a music CD I liked, and a bottle of red wine to give to my mom as a present for her birthday. And this morning he brought me coffee. He's doing nice things again, but how do you know if its progress (baby steps) or guilt over everything? Par4me, since you may be similar personalities - what do you think?
Have a horrible pit in my stomach. I really suck at this
I have told him a while ago I'd be fine with the divorce, that I didnt want it, but I'd be fine with it, I suppose this isnt the same as saying I'm done hey?
I suppose I'm just petrified that If I say I'm done, he'll say ok thats fine, so am I, and that will be the end, and he'll see me as a bitter fed up person, rather than the caring loving person I am. Am I insane?
