CW, I didn't think it would be too hard to change the utilities to my name. I am just more curious as to why H is resisting this. It just may be a control thing for him or possibly that it would signal just one more step in him letting go of his 'previous life' that he's struggling with. Another thought I had was that maybe he likes the fact that I give him money for them. Since he always paid them and when he left part of his spew was resenting how much the kids and I cost him. Maybe he gets satisfaction out of me giving the money to him for them. Who knows??? As I said, it's just curious to me.
I do not think about it very much until it comes up. I found out it was S26 who pressured his dad about switching them over this time around. I told S not to pressure his dad over this as it is not a big deal at this time.
