Still chipping away at EA

[xin]

AA,

Unfortunately my H is not giving any indication that he wants to work on our M. AFter trying to get me to move out of our place several times, he said I could stay as long as i want on the day OW broke up with him. I'm using the opportunity to DB and hope he might change his mind. But i'm happy to report i'm at the point where I could move forward without him as well.

In fact, it's much easier forme to move on than to hang around as I feel i'm being used by him to get over his A! For example on the night that OW broke up with him, he asked me to go for a drive with him and also asked for sex. I'm ashamed to say I had agreed to both.

The main reason I'm hanging around is to honour my marriage vow -i.e in good times and bad times. I also feel that I need to give it my all so that I would never look back with regret. Am I making sense?