Yes, I am in the childs life now. He just came down for the weekend. I was talking about a different relationship but it still applied. My son and I now have a good relationship.
I don't think he is divorce busting you he is just be vindicitive and mean. He is trying to hurt you. I don't know what to tell you. I don't know what to do myself. I can tell you that I am sorry that you are hurting and I wish that you did not. But, action is what you need. Something, it looks like you are just in a stalemate to me, not going forward or backwards. Just not doing anything about the relationship at all except hurting. I may be wrong. But that is the perception that I got from your post.
