i could not take it anymore

[Jstar]

i did stop talking to him for a few weeks and then he pops up - i had his truck - my car is still not working

i've detached to him and then i pulled myself in again with the birth of our son

that's how my first thread began - getting suggestions advice about having him present in the birth

now 5 months later it's back and forth. beginning of july i sent him boundaries with consequences, i followed thru with them, not all but some

i said if he continues to be uninvolved in kids lives i would contact an attorney - i did

i said if he continued to not give me full financial disclosure i would contact his employers to obtain the info - i did(with copies of both his social security numbers and names)

i said if he refused to give me his work schedule and provide a wanted visitation schedule i would provide him with one - i did - no visitation - supervised

i said if he continues to refuse to discuss the health care - car situation - support money - parenting plan - i would petition the court to have him pay my attorney fees - not so good on that one - have not gone to court yet or filed documents

i don't know if i should file or make him take responsibility for it?