And I'm making some decisions because I am ready to make some decisions. Period.
Only you know when you are ready. I respect that.
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I'm not sure where you get the confusion, I can tell you that I base my WAH thoughts on our last 6 mos of conversation re the last 6-15 years, and then honest and careful reflection. And you're right, H has not stopped seeing OW, but he took the last 6 years to really think about our M.
Are you sure about this? He didn't just walk away...he waivered. I don't mean to question you...I am sure you put a lot of thought behind this..however, your H has been involved in an A...they tend to rewrite history- making things seem a hell of a lot worse than they actually were to justify their actions. Are you sure he took the last 6 years...or was that just another justification for his actions. I am just putting this out there...I don't know the answers.
