HOWEVER, I do want to stay on top of things to maximize my chances to seeing this through.
I AM making changes for ME. However, Puppy and Allen have both said vigilance is NECESSARY, and both have had to re-expose before.
I am just keeping a watchful eye out should I need to do that again.
But you are also right in that it is quite painful. Seeing some of the things she says really hurt.
But in the end it help me to face REALITY. It lets me know what I am up against.
you can't fight a battle without good intel, and the more you have the better.
Like right now I wouldn't have known she is trying to sell the house in order to put a down payment on a condo and leave me to fend for myself in a crappy apt.
That is the ultimate thing that pushed me over the edge in deciding to set boundaries and NOT let her call the shots about where I live and my life in general.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
