Let me offer some advice from someone who has "been there, done that" with all the intel, all the "who was she texting at 10 pm?", "Why did she get off then?", reverse # lookup, etc.:
STOP IT!
You're obsessing.
She's a liar and a cheat. You already know it, and if you have enough evidence to win a court battle, you can stop spying for now.
You're spending W-A-Y too much time on her and she doesn't deserve it.
I know you are married to her, I know you love her, but for YOUR OWN SAKE, disconnect.
I know it's hard.
But here's what I've found once I took my focus off WS and put it back on myself. There are LOTS of people out there who:
*Think you are amazing *Treat you better than WS *Will flirt with you *Want to sleep with you
So STOP spending SO much time on the one who done you wrong. Work on YOU, GAL, flirt, and before long, you'll both have hand and the ability to strut down the street like John Travolta at the end of "Saturday Night Fever."
