Shelby, get whatever you can out of that account. Since he emptied it, you have every right to what's left. Protect your money. Get his name off any credit cards. Retain a L asap. A L can serve him with desist papers so that he can't keep taking money away from you and the kids or running up debt. You can also get some temporary support in place.
Let his mom do whatever she wants. Best to stay out of it. Besides, maybe it will shake him up a bit.
You're doing great but you can't worry about what will push him away right now. You have to just do whatever it takes to protect yourself and your daughters.
