Terrific email! And I support your idea of seeing if he will come up with it on his own...but just file in the back of your mind that he might not get the nerve to do it! Of course you know your H best...but considering this is about YOUR boundaries, it is definitely a discussion worth having, whether he starts it or not!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
