OK, saw my Lawyer today. Here's the scoop. WH's attorney is not known for his lightening response to anything, so we are going to sit here quietly and wait for his next move, which will be motivated by OW. We can postpone on any number of items, as WH has not returned any of the Questions sent by my attorney.

I asked if I could have the case dismissed due to my WH's PTSD diagnosis and refusal of counseling. He said actually, in the state of Arkansas, I can have it dismissed on the grounds of adultery. Yes, that's right, I said DISMISSED. In other words, if I'm willing to put up with it, he has to shut up about it.