Got it. No more of these conversations. I just wanted her to know that I knew she read my e-mails and was lying to me. She lies to me all the time anymore.
Thanks Robx.
no problem, there is also no problem in standing up to someone and calling them on their crap behavior:
"Please don't lie to me, I'm an adult, I can handle hearing the truth, hopefully you're an adult and can handle telling the truth"