Maybe, I have suggested it. I really care about her but she is hurting me badly. I have put her in rehab 3 times now. I guess we just keep doing it until she gets in right. I have offered to come get her. I don't know why. I have been trying to detach, meaning I have not been answering her calls. I have responded to her texts. But she calls everyday for a total of about 2 minutes. If I ask her a question she says she is feeling pressured so I just quit calling. I don't know what to do or what I should do. That is why I am on this board. I am just hoping someone will give the advice that works. I am trying to set her free. I would get her the help. I just don't know if she really is going to come this weekend or not. She said-this is not my life, i belong with you, i want to be there by the weekend. But, I can't believe her from one day to the next. I have asked in a text how she was going to get here. No response. I told her I would come get her. No response. I think she is keeping my hanging on the rope so that I will be there if she needs me. Probably try and start a fight or not even call at all the next couple of days so that she has a reason not to come. I just don't know?
