but... and you knew one (a "but") was coming, you sound very jealous
Jealous is insecure, an insecure man is not attractive to women, in fact it's pretty much the opposite.
It's like the difference between a drop dead gorgeous hawaiian tropics swimsuit model and Rosie O'Donnell dressed up in a 2 piece thong bikini... unwaxed (no offense Rosie) to a man. One is extremely attractive and the other.... isn't.
Being a jealous man makes you appear as unattractive to a woman as Rosie O'Donnell in the afore-mentioned condition appears to a man.
Men are primarily visually stimulated when it comes to attraction, that's just how it is and what keeps him attracted afterwards is a woman's behavior. Women are primarily attracted to a man's behavior, that's not to say that women aren't visually stimulated because they are but a man's behaviors are what stimulate women more than anything: being confident, funny, fun to be with, happy, exciting, secure, ambitious, exhibiting leadership characteristics, being strong, assertive, etc.
So are you an attractive man or are you Rosie O'Donnell?
