I get the mood swings from my ex all the time. She says she wants to work it out but she won't hardly talk to me. On the phone is just a few minutes and she has to go. When she texts it is just a few words like I messed up, or I am sorry. But she will not take the time to talk to me. She lives 600 miles away so seeing her in person doesn't happen. It really seems like she doesn't want to work on things-just keep me hanging around in case I am needed. There is om that she says she doesn't want him to know that she is talking to me because she doesn't want to fight with him. But I am not calling or texting her. i only text her back and that is because she said she wanted to move back in by this weekend. She has no way of getting here.