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Do you understand why it hurts you? Do you see the connection you have with giving money and love? You did with your family and his. If I just give enough money maybe then they will love me.

i see the connection with giving money and love.
i remember my older sister once said "mom, people don't like us because we don't have any money." and that stuck with me from childhood to adulthood. that's where the mentality comes from.
how do you undo something like this if i want to work on this part of me?

it also taught me that excluding someone for something they cannot control, is hurtful. and you never want to make someone feel that way.

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Examine that. try giving them a foreign currency and see how much they love you for it. kids know what it takes to get the ice cream outta the truck.

i could sure use an ice cream right now. it's hot out east.