Sorry Taylor, Guess I have to hang up my dreams of being a psychologist. Being here is venting for me too. Just want to make it real. Don't want to just keep telling you to be happy, live life,GAL etc. Those things are important and crucial but they don't have much behind them after a while for me. That, I understand is guys biggest problem. They want to fix, offer solutions and girls just want to be heard. Read books on that, Listened to friends on that, My wife expects that (Which means I should just know) When am I going to learn! Anybody?
WS, I agree with you about men and women for the most part, but I'm a fixer, too. I believe that's why I'm here. I had to learn that I can't fix this for my H. I have learned that I can only fix myself and that's where my focus is.
If I end up being the better option for my H that would be great. What I want to be is the best option for myself.
Truegritter I know I should start my own thread. I only have a little time here and there to read about others. Then I feel like helping. 5 minutes after sending that reply I regret what I just sent.
Taylor I am really sorry if that came through wrong. I just finished with the C and realized how one sided this stuff is again. I do want to help you though because I feel some of your pain.
