I don't know CP. Sounds like too much pursuit to me with all your different plans. Don't jump in with both feet. Take it very slow or she may get cold feet.
Wait for Puppy or some other pro to advise.
I am following Coaches advise on going overboard with the house and the horses. This is something she knows I could fail at. Usually I would leave the house a mess, requiring more work for her to do when she returned.
The posted notes and flowers(nothing special) are part of expressing the 5LL. The movies are a hidden extra. She wouldnt know that they were re-arranged for her, as I usually leave it up to her to pick them out. Dont worry I didnt put in any romance ones, mostly comedy.
When I go on vacation, I plan on taking lots of pictures with the kids. I'll send her some every now and then. This would let her know I and the kids are having a blast without her. ..No?
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