Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

let her call you next, talk about how busy you are and all you are doing.

I wouldn't be waitng on her when she gets back. Maybe a note to tell her change outfits because you are taking her out for dinner. Have the house all in order. Make a small home improvement. Go "overboard" in handling things.

What are her LLs?

I do let her text/call me first. I been having the urge all day to be the one to call though. Hard resisting.....
I will be busy. I will have to move corral panels for the new horses. Cut the grass, etc.I will have the house in order when she gets back.

We(Me and the kids) are heading out on vacation with my folks next week. W and my parents are not seeing eye to eye. Frankly I am not seeing eye to eye with them either. Another story...Anyhow. W will be at home alone for a week. I could try something when I get back. It will my B day when we get back on Sunday, and unfortunately have our court proceedings on Thursday.I told L that W had and A and gave him all I had. I told him to please hold off on this as I still wanted to work this out, but keep the ace in the sleeve when we need it. He understood.


As gor her LL, its difficult. I say there was a quiz on the 5LL webpage, she fits almost even in all LL. Could I ask her to take the quiz with me when she gets back?

She does love the little gifts. I guess the moving and prepping for the new horses are a act of service....I plan on getting 3-4 flowers and having them arranged on the kitchen table for her when she returns. I thought about putting hidden posted notes around the house for her to read.




I just worry about contact with OM while I am gone...The A is still fresh in my mind. I went over this with IC yesterday. I promised I will not snoop, but "ride the higher ground" and ask W after I return to see the phone records,email,phone etc. I am sure the you dont trust me will come out again. I already have this covered. I will tell her I do trust you, thats is why I asked to see the "stuff" together. If I didn't I could of just went behind you back and check up on you." That good?


Sorry about the rambling on all over.