Originally Posted By: Coach
Count how many times you use she and her. The post starts with how detached you are then you go on to talk about what she is doing to you and how she spends her time and money.

What are you doing?



"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Ghandi


I see what you mean. I was just bothered by the whole secretive nature of the whole thing with W. I just have been very non-trusting of her and this is one of the reasons why. Very secretive things and then staying overnight at the friends house.

I have been doing more things for myself. Last weekend I went out with friends, started playing soccer again this spring, and trying to go out more often but most of my friends are married with children and are home bodies, difficult to do that. I am trynig to get to the gym more, but I have been dealing with some issues that keep me from doing that consistently, but I am worknig on it with the doctor. I definately am doing more stuff with S, that makes me most happy. I bought fishing poles for him and I and plan on going very soon. I want to work on my car that I have been restoring, but that was a subject of concern with W. She felt like any time I would work on the car that I was not paying attention to her. So if I do intend to fix things, I really did not want to send the message that I was not listning to her before. Not sure what to do with that one.