Puppy: You and your mentor are wise. Great post.

Callasdad: You sound like you are in a better place. I'm glad.

Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother