In my state, it means one does not have to prove the other did anything wrong. You can not fight it b/c no reason for the D must be offered. However, property splits are not simple, nor are alimony, custody, and child support issues. A new law in my state allows the judge to consider infidelity when determining alimony and property settlements. That means, so far, that a husband does not have to pay alimony to a cheating wife. She can dump her H but he won't have to pay for it.
Many family law attorneys will give you a free consult. This will give you info on what you are entitled to in a D, answer any procedural questions, and L can tell you what to expect from L before handing over a retainer. Talk to at least 3 of these first. But remember, they are in the divorce business and will send you down that path like a ford dealer trying to sell you a ford instead of a chevy. Tell them upfront you will not file but want to be prepared when/if H does.
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