You ask questions that are not answerable. What is wrong with MIL keeping the kid over night? Why is that such an issue? Is MIL uncapable of taking care of son? I think it is such a non-issue.
She is capable of watching S. I do not like the way she treats him or the way she raised her two children. What bothered me about the whole thing was that I was never asked about the whole situation. Like my opinion did not matter or that I could not handle my S without W. This was the most convinient thing FOR HER to do. What if I had something planned?
Originally Posted By: par4me
People change.She migt be changing because you had love googles on before and after detachment you are just now noticing how she really acts. I am not sure.
I am not sure either. I was hoping you guys would know somethnig. I also am getting interference from my family who has been hurt over the whole thing and I am trying to weed out the useful comments from the ones that are just there to lash out at her becasue she hurt them. This whole thing has gotten very difficult and I am trying to decide what I want out of the whole mess.
