My W always wants to hear a plan. It comforts her. She wants to know that I have thought about the things she worries about.
She wants to feel safe with you. This is attractive to women.
So fill your wife in on what you are thinking about - work, family, news, hobbies, etc. MWD see-saw here - she worries because she doesn't know that your are thinking about your family issues. Let her in (intomesee). Women don't view it as a weakness when you share your doubts (opposite of men). Don't be her BFF but her partner.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
