What do you put up with and/or what will you accept with opposite s*x friends on social sites? W got big into FB back in Jan. I found out later that an "old friend" was coming on to her. She is an attractive woman and she flirts. His W shut it down, but now I don't trust W. She is still active on FB and has other male "old friends" including a few single guys. I don't like it, but when I state that I get told I'm trying to control her and just being jealous. I don't know her password. I have a keylogger on the PC, but I can't imagine monitoring W for the rest of our marriage.

So...how do you feel or what will you accept? Is it...
-I don't care. My W can have as many male friends as she wants on FB.
-No male friends for my W.
-Somewhere in the middle?