Coach...thanks for the ass-kicking. You are spot on. I keep trying to pull her in and I should just assume she's not.
My DB coach suggested what I said. Assume she is going to be at the 3 year old's party with her kids and then be a little surprised if she says she's not going. I was expecting something I guess. Something positive.
My W always wants to hear a plan. It comforts her. She wants to know that I have thought about the things she worries about.
