Recent interactions with W have been cordial. Although I have a sneaking suspicion that she brought OM up to the in-laws to have dinner. I have no proof, but she had taken the kids up during the week (Wed through Thursday night) then went back to see them Sunday. They live 2 hours away, and she is going up again this Friday, so that is why I think the Sunday visit sounds fishy.
The only reason it bothers me is the feeling of a bit of betrayal by my in-laws. I guess I don't want them to accept the OM, or even welcome him into their home. But I suppose they feel over a barrel, and don't want a strained relationship with their daughter, so they have to take a bite from the sh*t sandwich.
Like I said, no proof, so it could just be me doing some mindless speculation.
Spoke to my lawyer yesterday, as he had gotten through reviewing the financial questionnaire I completed for him. He doesn't feel like there will be any big sticking points for our dissolution. He expects to have the documents drawn up for me to review within 2 weeks.
No word from my W's church on whether they sat down with the OM. They recently had a major upheaval in leadership, so they may be caught up in that. In any case, I put no stock in that effort at all. I'm moving on. Short of my W doing a complete 180, she will just be a speck in my rear view mirror.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
