Wow Opt! What a development. I agree with the others, that after the weekend away, if yo and H sit down to talk again, you may find that an S isn't the answer and that more of these honest discussions are.

I am so impressed that you could do that conversation with such calm. You must feel proud of yourself - I am!

I hope I can learn from your strength.

(((HUGS)))

totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."