Yeah, it's crumbling for him . . . all my L and I need to do a) summons a few people to establish affair; b) subpoena the lease the the apt. and we can clearly show LIES and that it's in her name (I was bluffing on this but believe it 100%). Then it's easy to show that H exposed her to affair partner and lied about the circumstances to me.
Allen - used your points to respond to a text request. My L, by the way, has let me know how these can be subpoened. So my goal on text convo is to write as if a judge is listening . My H texted me that he wasn't happy about things "I've been telling my daughter" and could I please just make this smooth for her sake? This was yesterday, so I took one from the Allen play book and responded: "Due to you exposing dd to ur affair partner, she has been asking tough questions about u having a girlfriend. I will be documenting her questions and passing to my lawyer. Maybe he can refer us to a psychologist or social worker who can help us parent through this mess u have made."
Leaving for an in-state trip to my mom's this AM - asked a few people to provide intel while I'm gone.