Thanks for the update, tryingtilDorR. You need to post more often and keep us in the loop!
Glad to hear you are able to get the ball rolling on moving on with your life. Unfortunate that it came to that, but you accepted the fact that you can't change your W, and you gave her more than enough time to wake up.
I'm sure your W is nervous and scared about her actions pushing your family to this. Seeing you moving on is probably very frustrating to her since her "safety net" is now pulled out from under her.
I'm pretty much where you are except for the dating part. Paperwork is in the lawyer's hands and he is drawing up a dissolution agreement.
How did you re-enter the dating scene? I am definitely leery of it being over 40 and all, although I could pass for being early 30s.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09