Hrere's an interesting question (and I'm posting on my thread and Setting Free)

Is there a conflict betwee setting them free and going through the exposure stage?

It appears to me that exposing my W and OM will appear to be me seeking revenge/raetaliation. Somthing done out of hurt.

If I'm setting her free, why would I do anything at all?

Just let them wallow in their own mess.