You need to be in a place emotionally where you can say "I am ok with things going etiher way... I will be fine"
Once I DID that, thats when my wife actually started to turn around...
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's exactly when my H turned around. I'd really let go, was enjoying my life, and wasn't worrying about H. My thought at the time was, "He'll either recommit or he won't. I'll be okay either way."
Drop your fear. Let go. Detach from the outcome.
Are you in IC? If not, GO.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
