Optimist,

After reading your post on my thread where you told me that the time will come when H and I will talk and then coming over here and reading that your H actually brought up a subject you were dreading having to confront him with, I have great hope!

I would also like to point out what I see as a great positive with your H. He calls you and tells you when he'll be home, where he is, etc. Mine doesn't do that at all. That is one of the things I would like to see change. So I consider the fact that he keeps you informed a big positive.

I hope things have gotten better. I know that the roller coaster has taken quite a few quick dips.

Hang on tight. Oh, and I really appreciate the quote you put at the end of your posts. It is very encouraging and right on the mark for us dbers.

Hope you have a good day,

Loved One