New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

OK, Michelle, I'll do that. Your line of approach sounds really good. I think if I let my W come up what her ideas on how, when to link up, that would be really good. I'll do that for sure.

Yesterday was a good GAL day for me. I spent the day with an old friend I haven't seen in 13 years. We did some sightseeing in the area and talked a lot to catch up on each others' lives. It turns out he also is going through serious marriage issues.

The situation is that in his case, he is the STBWAS and his W is the pursuer. Him and her have been married for 16 yrs with a lot of put downs and lack of respect on the W's side. I was able to share my experience with him and told him about the DB techniques I've been using to get some results. This is really ironic because he was at my wedding and I was at his, and here we are 13 years later in the same predicament with our spouses...

Anyway, good visit and GAL with my friend. I'll do what you suggested Michelle. Thanks for being a great battle buddy on the frontlines of DB.

JR