I agree with Grace. People that spew mean things to others are usually very unhappy people.
You will find that the MLCer will wear a mask. This gives the impression of happiness which is what he wants you to believe. He may even think he's happy because he believes he's getting what he wants.
When the reality of it sets in and the mask slips you'll get a chance to view how your H really feels and it's not pretty.
What's most striking to me is my H's 'dead eyes'. There seems to be no spark left in them. Depression is taking its toll.
I hope you hear good news about the job. My prayers are with you.
