Hey Taylor,

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he doesn't seem to be suffering one tiny bit. He seems to be having a pretty good time sneaking around with all of his girlfriends. he seems to be having a pretty good time saying mean and hateful little digs to me whenever he can get them in.


seems is the operative word here. It's been my experience in life that people who go around getting digs in and being mean, aren't really all that happy. That he seems to be having such a grand ol' time and the reality of it can be very different.

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And me..I'm not having a very good time. I don't even see that happening when I start to do things on my own and GAL.


If you think you can or think you can't...you're right. Start seeing yourself as having a great life and enjoying everything you do (or at least some of it wink )and you will. It may start slowly, but slow and steady etc.

Btw, good luck on the job!

HUGS